galiu atsakyti - vienareikšmiškai TAIP.

... nemeluoji nei kitiems nei sau, esi natūralus ir spontaniškas, situacijas priimi - su jomis nekovoji, yra kaip yra , o yra taip , kaip turi būti...

Todėl esi geros nuotaikos.... Puikiai sutariu su savo kolektyvu darbe, su giminėmis, su draugais....Nors toje terpėje neturiu bendraminčių....

Jei tu manai, kad aš puolu pamokslauti, atvertinėti žmones į "teisingą" kelią , tai klysti... Jei mane vaišina mėsa, aš pasivaišinu - nepuolu įrodinėti vegetarizmo naudos... Tačiau išgerti man jau niekas nebesiūlo...
Kasdieninis gyvenimas teka įprasta vaga. Aš nemaišau niekam, ir man niekas nemaišo....

Turiu pakankamai erdvės savo dvasinėms praktikoms, ir jaučiuosi puikiai visur - tiek šeimoje, tiek darbe, tiek tarp bendraminčių....

Na buti natūraliai ir spontaniškai jau šis tas

Tai ką, ačiū už pokalbį, tam kartui labos nakties

Tikiuosi dirbi ne KMUK - niekur nemačiau tiek daug pasimetusių, prislėgtų ir frustracijos kamuojamų žmonių kaip KMUK

Vakarykštis ponių pokalbis kaip reta šioje temoje buvo stiprus.

Kai pašnekovai sukuria erdvę viens kitam, stengiasi išgirsti ir dalintis, koncentruojasi į pokalbio temą, o ne į ego, štai kas gaunasi. Kitais žodžiais - kaip šauksi, taip ir atsilieps....

Klausimus pateikti visi moka, išgirsti , ką pašnekovas sako - tai menas ar mokslas, kaip kam geriau....

ruta tai daro profesionaliai, jai komplimentas...

Ačiū, lorpak

Na, tam kartui pasidžiaugėm, iki kitos temos.

iki malonaus

o aš aplink matau vien tik linksmus ir geranoriškus....

Tau gerai, bet vis tik įdomu, kokios problemos graužia KMUK

nedariau tokios studijos, tad nieko ir negaliu komentuoti. Ko gero tokios pačios, kaip ir likusią visuomenės dalį - darbo, santykių ir pinigų.

Gurudev, you say in the Yoga Sutras that those who are not doing good, one should educate and ignore them. But Gurudev, what to do if that person is our life partner and we have to live with him? How do I ignore him or improve him?

Sri Sri: We have to ask him also, what’s his opinion about you.
I am not qualified to answer this question, I have no experience, I don't talk about subjects in which I have no experience, still I would say create a space for him as he is. Don’t try to become his teacher.
The biggest issue with men is if you step on their ego, then that is it, he is not going to learn from you. He’ll become like a rebellious kid. A woman should always take care that she does not step on the ego of her man, but keeps pumping his ego. Making him feel good about himself.
When a person doesn’t feel good about himself that is when he creates trouble for everybody around him. You should realize this. You have to teach him in such a way that he doesn’t feel like he is being taught; you have to do it in a good mood, in a good way.

We need to have patience, that’s the thing. Accept people with so much patience. Or indirectly, through his friends you have to teach him. Not directly but through someone else. Use your smartness. I know you are very smart.
And finally, if there is an intention in your heart, if there is pain in your heart, ‘Oh, this person is going in a wrong way,’ that pain, that intention, that prayer in your heart can impact a person’s life. This I have seen. Pray for their betterment.
Mahatma Gandhi used to sing this prayer every day, ‘Sabko sanmati de bhagwan’. Give a good mind to everybody.

"...Ir pabaigai – keli pastebėjimai iš trečios kartos vilniečio, pabėgusio į kaimą, patirties:



1.Gyvenant vienkiemyje kaimynais tampa visi žmonės, gyvenantys maždaug 15 kilometrų spinduliu. Įdomu, ar aš anksčiau žinojau, kas gyvena toje pačioje laiptų aikštelėje?

2.Atsiradus daržams pastebėjau, kad su mano mityba kažkas negerai... Rudenį aš valgau salotas, o vasarą – noriu mėsos... Na, juk visi žurnalai atvirkščiai rašo! Netyčia skaitydama kažkokią knygą radau: senovėje žmonės pasninkaudavo žiemą, kai dirbti nereikia, o lašinius taupydavo vasaros
darbymečiui...

3.Pasivaikščiojimas mieste tampa labai varginantis... Kodėl? Ogi todėl, kad visi nematomi barjerai, kuriuos užsiaugina miesto žmogus, nuo kitų žmonių yra ištirpę... Ir aš jaučiu kiekvieną praeinantį žmogų.

4. Ir svarbiausia – po truputį valosi smegenys. Atkrenta noras daryti tai, ką visi daro. Niekad nebuvau mėgėja elgtis kaip visi, bet tik dabar, po 5 metų pradedu suvokti, kokią mums įtaką daro kitų elgesys, kaip nieko negalvodami mes darom kaip ir visi. Pirmą kartą tai suvokiau prieš Kalėdas, patekusi į miestą – visi lakstė apsikrovę krepšiais po parduotuves paklaikusiomis akimis... Man pasidarė gėda dėl jų... O juk anksčiau aš darydavau lygiai tą patį..."

Gurudev, how to be diplomatic and what is the art of getting your work done?

Sri Sri: Being diplomatic is seeing the point from the other person’s angle as well. Getting into the other person’s shoes and looking at the situation. Being a little more sensible. Diplomacy is being sensitive and sensible at the same time.
Many people are very sensitive. When they are too sensitive they lose their sensibility. When they speak they don’t make sense. And there are many people who make perfect sense but they are not sensitive. They say correct things but emotionally they are not sensitive about how what they are saying is being taken. We need that beautiful combination of sensitivity and sensibility.

Often people who are rude and rough swear on their correctness. They say, 'I am correct’. When you’re angry, even though you are saying the correct thing, nobody wants to take it. You’re correctness is rejected though you are correct, because you’re not sensible, you’re not diplomatic. You are not putting it in their mind. So what happens is, your communication breaks down even though you’re saying the most correct thing. The listener is putting a wall in front of him or her.
Your purpose of communicating the right thing to them is gone.
It is not how correct, what you are saying, that is important, it is how you make the other person understand, that what you are saying, is correct. That is the skill..

Simple things, you have a correct idea but you’re dad doesn’t have. Your father doesn’t have the right vision and you have the right vision. How many of you think like this? (Audience raise hands) See!
‘I know how to do business. I know the correct idea but dad doesn’t know!’ Right? Raise your hands, don’t feel shy! (audience raise hands)
Youngsters think differently. ‘This is how we can make better business and dad doesn’t agree with this!’
Then you tell dad, ‘Dad you’re wrong. This is not the right thing to do!’ That’s it! His ego is hurt and he is not going to listen to you, even though you are saying the right thing he will not listen.
He is ready to let go of his business but not his ego! He is ready to suffer the loss, but he doesn’t like to be humiliated.
That is where you need the skill. How will you say? ‘Dad, I think this would be a better idea, but you know best.’
Just this one thing, ‘Dad, you know the best, but I think this may work, what do you say?’
Then he’ll say, ‘Oh, okay beta (son), I think you are right, I’m wrong.’
Then he will accept that he is wrong and you are right. You need to create that space.

Whether at work or at home, when people feel comfortable talking to you, they talk to you and they feel that their view points are heard. You may be very caring and loving person, but if you don’t have that communication skill, you will only suffer more.
You’ll think, ‘Oh I’m so good. I only think for the good for the company, I think only good for the family, but everything has gone topsy-turvy!’ How many of you agree with me? (audience raise hands)
This is where you need this wisdom of sensitivity and sensibility. Keep these two things.
There is a way to tackle the ego. I have seen big companies, big institutions completely collapse just because of this. I wouldn’t name the company, but there was a great man in India who put a factory for anything he needed. If he needed a needle, he wouldn’t buy one, he would put a needle factory. From cars, to steel, iron, clothes, fans, everything! He had a 150 different businesses. This elderly man who had not even been to high school built a big business empire and gave it to two of his sons. Probably you’re guessing already! (audience laughs) Your guess is not correct! It is not the Mumbai based one, it’s a different company. He had two sons and six daughters. It’s not two sons and one daughter which you all know!
This gentleman made all this and gave it to his two sons, and one manager played between the two sons. He would tell the elder brother that your younger brother said this to me, and to the younger one he would say, your elder brother said this to me. He broke their communication. They would not communicate with each other. Their ego came in-between and first they bifurcated the companies, and then it collapsed. Everything collapsed. Couple of the 150 different companies are working today, everything else is absolutely gone! Ego clash! Simply that! Just a manager, or an employee can create this rift between two brothers.

Similarly, a servant maid at home can create a drift between a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law. Does it happen? How many say yes? (audience raise hands)
The servant would say the mother-in-law said not to listen to you, and she will tell the mother-in-law, you know you’re daughter-in-law said not to listen to you. That’s enough! Just one thing is good enough.

The manager would say, your brother asked me not to tell you this. Finished! You’ve sown a seed of mistrust. A simple thing, the elder boss said not to tell this thing to you. What not to tell is not important. That one seed of mistrust sown and a rift starts happening.
A rift happened and big business houses have collapsed totally. We have seen this in this country. Not one or two times, but dozens of them. Why? That bonding was not there. That’s where spirituality makes a very big difference. Here, every day, we resolve many such issues! Every day! Not one or two, hundreds! Sensitivity and sensibility.

Like yesterday, I said that the mind always goes for something new, latest fashion. But the heart yearns for old. You never say this is my latest friendship! You don’t take pride in a fresh friendship. ‘I became friends two hours ago.’ It has no value, but when you say, he’s my old friend, that has value.
Your heart yearns for the old, takes pride in the old. That’s why when you’re in love you feel you’ve been in love for ages. You feel like that. It’s an ancient love. It’s an old friendship. You don’t say that’s an old fashion. You don’t take pride in old fashion. Mind goes for new, heart goes for ancient and life is a combination of old and new. We need both. (audience claps)

Gurudev, with so many negative influences from the world outside, how can I give the right values to my children and skillfully introduce them to spirituality?

Sri Sri: I think you should keep this question in your mind, and keep bringing it up again and again.
What I would say is, you should engage your children to do some service activity, so that they are not always thinking about themselves. Send them to camps where they do some service activity.

When children start sharing and caring for people from a very small age, they become very aware when they grow older. They don’t become so self centered and always think, ‘What about me!’ Instead they will think, ‘What can I do? How can I contribute, how can I make this world a better place?’
This sort of spirit in a child will always keep them in the right path. If you make them too selfish, all the time thinking only about themselves, they will not even care for their parents.

KOVO 11- ta


1386 – Vilnius gavo miesto teises.

1566 – įsigaliojo Antrasis Lietuvos Statutas.

1936 – Klaipėdos radijo stotis transliavo pirmąją bandomąją laidą – patefono plokštelių koncertą.

1938 – Lenkija pateikė Lietuvai ultimatumą užmegzti diplomatinius santykius, nutrauktus šiai šaliai okupavus Vilnių. Lietuva ultimatumą priėmė.

1990 – Lietuvos Aukščiausioji Taryba priėmė Lietuvos Respublikos Nepriklausomybės atkūrimo aktą.

Sveikinimai visiems šia proga!


LINKIU RAMYNĖS

Prasom. Yra sri sri mokymai. kursu/mokymu kainos surasytos kainyne. priklausomai nuo dimensijos lygio kyla ir kursu kaina. kita dimensija - kita kaina

Dėkoju Šri Šri Pardavimų skyriaus menedžerei už info.
Bet, kam man, paprastam žmogui, aukštesnės dimensijos?.. Et ...

Q: With the media reporting crime and negativity around the world, what do you think is their responsibility towards this violence that is happening? What do you think we should be doing differently?

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: I think the media has two important roles to play. One is to place the facts in front of the people as they are. At the same time create hope in people for the future.You know, the present scenario can be very depressing. The media has to take responsibility not to create more depression in society. They have to give people hope.
Suppose there is a riot, or a crisis, or a war, in that situation also there is hope; there are good people on the planet who are doing some very good work, this must be highlighted. Otherwise when you open the newspaper, all you see is bad news, which is depressing. The people feel that there is no hope in life because the world is so bad.
The citizen of this world will not label society as bad or hopeless. This can happen only when they are bombarded with negative news all the time. So, media will have to balance this out. Create hope, at the same time keep the reality in front of people.

Dėl žiniasklaidos, labai idealistinis Šri Šri atsakymas, bet praktiškai vargu, ar įmanomas šiūdienų kapitalizme, kur media jau atlieka tam tikras funkcijas, priešingas nei Šri Šri nurodytoms rolėms. Yra labai geras straipsnis apie media naudojamas manipuliacijas: http://noam-chomsky.tumblr.com/post/13867896307/noam-chomsky-10-strategies-of-manipulation-by-the
ten ir paaiškinama, kodėl medioje taip viskas juodai ir depresyviai piešiama. Tai kaip viena iš strategijų

Tiesa, atsimenu senąją animaciją, kur viskas moralu, gražu, teisinga; nežinau gal ir spauda prie ruso buvo itin iššvarinta, tai jau šiek tiek arčiau, ką mąsto Šri Šri, bet kita vertus tai irgi buvo daroma dėl ideologijos.
Taip kad, Šri Šri pateikiama realūs faktai + viltis strategija, man atrodo, yra toks idealistinis pamąstymas daugiau ir tiek, ir nieko daugiau praktiško

....žiū, ruta, tai mes patys, niekas kitas leidžiame visa ką tolinti nuo žmogiškumo.... Leidžiame tvarkytis mumis , kaip kam patinka.... O motyvacija - .... šiūdienų kapitalizme,...


O šiandienos žiniasklaida tarnauja korporacijoms, korporacijos - kapitalui, o kapitalas - asmeniniams mažos grupės interesams... Išeina - mes laisva valia tampame tarnais.....


Atiduodame savo laisvą valią... - O kas žino kaip man geriau gyventi....? ...aš pats žinau, kas man geriau........ o taip, tarnas yra labai praktiškas reikalas, negaliu nesutikti su tavimi....

...gal jau pabuskime...